FindYourPerson.
GrindHer is the dating app built exclusively for lesbian and queer women — a space where you belong from the very first swipe.
Join 4,200+ women already on the waitlist
Built different
Dating that actually gets you
Made for queer women
Every feature, every filter, every experience — designed with our community at the center. No afterthought. No compromise.
Safety first
Robust verification, photo ID checks, and a dedicated safety team so you can focus on connecting, not worrying.
Real connections
Meaningful prompts and shared values matching help you find someone who actually vibes with who you are.
Your community
Events, groups, and spaces to meet people beyond the app — because community is more than a match.
Our community
A space where you're celebrated, not just tolerated.
GrindHer is built on the belief that queer women deserve a dating experience that reflects the full richness of who we are. Inclusive of all identities within our community — lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, non-binary, and beyond.
"Finally, an app that feels like it was made for me — not just adapted for me."
— Beta tester, New York
ID Verification
Optional photo ID verification so you know who you’re talking to.
Block & Report
Robust tools to protect your experience — always one tap away.
Moderation team
A dedicated team of humans reviewing reports around the clock.
Be first. Be you.
GrindHer launches soon. Get early access and help shape the app your community deserves.